I had a textverstation I promised not to respond to... So I will blog vent where no one will ever see.
My text: I will not be able to help plan nor will we attend your wedding as it is our first wedding anniversary. Honestly I am hurt that you would ignore me for a year then ask me to help plan an event on my first wedding anniversary. It puts me in a position to either not attend an event I helped plan or to have to sacrifice my happiness for yours. All that would be find if you had told me before I agreed to help or as soon as I knew. I would have helped plan then not attended as I will ne out of town.However, I find it inconsiderate an crass that you I would have to find this out in a mass email. It means a you either forgot my wedding which you at a year ago. Or you don't feel its important enough to acknowledge. Whichever is true it means you don't care about me as a person. I'm ok with that. It's good to know. Best of luck to you your baby family and friends on your days.
Her response: Megan you are delusional. Out of common courtesy I keep my commentary to myself. But you've officially pushed me too far. I asked for help with INVITATIONS. But your head is so far up your ass you can't even do that. Don't worry, my family will be great. And April 1 is not only significant to you. Other people have significant events that have happened on that day too. But again, your "head-up-my-ass" syndrome has blinded your MINOR ability to be logical. So forget I asked. Forget me. Because you're pushing me out of character. So do you and I'll do me. And I BEG you not to respond because my grudge holding ability is very strong right now and will only be of detriment to you.
The response that will never be: 1 I say Im hurt and that you don't care about me and you respond with anger. When I accidentally hurt someone and they tell me they are hurt, I attempt to assuage their pain because I care. That further proves my point. 2 You had 1 of 2 things in mind to either have me help with invitations to an event I was not invited to, or not be able to attend an event for which I made the invitations.it is loose loose for me. To put someone in a loose loose is inconsiderate 3 I realize the day may ne important to you. Does that prevent you from acknowledging it is important to me? Before my wedding I personally called anyone for whom I thought my wedding may be an imposition. I thanked them for considering to come inspite of... But that's me. 4 finally as for your threat... Of what detriment can you be. I have a husband who loves me who have never lied to, so you can't hurt that. To harm me physically or financially would harm my children as well. If you are that evil go ahead, negatively affect the lives of innocent children I tried to quit my job they asked me to stay. Even if you could get me fired, again to get me fired would hurt my kids so. Then we come to our friends. One hates you now so good luck with that. The only other two we have in common approved the text message before I sent it. Hell the opening line is a direct quote from their suggestions. I asked them for advice because they know I lack tact. They thought what I said was tactful and appropriate. Face it, short of ignoring me, which is what you did all year until you needed my help, you can't hurt me. So do your worst... I'm curious to see how a good Christian like yourself can do detriment to me without purposely sinning. I do wish you the best. I mean that. I hold no malice. I never wished you ill will. I just said I won't be there. You hurt me, and you don't care.
